WHEW!!! I finally found it and got the package from the Postal Pixie!!! SO glad!!!
Thank you, walkinslow - that is where I found it - and I had a hard time remembering whose garden I had been too also, but then I remembered that it was someone whose name I recognized from the forum - JCStitches. (I hope I got that right!)
I also found this note I had for myself from years past:
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1. My Greenhouse (on flower picture under the watering can)
2. Main Gate (the three seeds page) (the top of the page at the word Flowergame - blue egg)
3. Flower Garden (place where there are tons of seeds to choose from)
4. Atrium
5. Adult Plant page in your own garden
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6. Compendium (click on a name to learn about a plant, I think it could be any plant)
7. Minigame - the one where you line up the flowers to get three in a row
8. Minigame - the sled game where you catch stuff
9. Minigame - the game where you click the tiles to build a path using the clues
10. Users online page
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11. News page
12. Settings page
13. Water someone else's plants (after you water an egg appeared if I remember correctly)
14. Garden Gate Main page (bottom left of page - yellow egg)
15. Garden Gate Main page (bottom right of page - green egg)
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16. Friend's Main Garden page (where you see all three buildings)
17. Friend's Greenhouse
18. Your Main Garden page (where you see all three buildings)
19. Friend's Winterhouse
20. Unfortunately when my husband finally found where he had hidden the list this particular LAST place had been torn off so....
Mind you, I can't take credit for this list - I got it from someone else, but I don't remember who that was or I would give them credit. If it was you, please tell me!